Some loving controller
always needs to meet once insecurities for being in charge of a situation by
trying to manipulate others and never be able to find the needed peace in the
self.
The externalized focus of
control struggles to surrender to the simplicity of compassion of every moment
needs to know all the issues that cause underlying anxiety and the lack of
inner calm.
The loving controller uses
manipulation to get others to conform to their will, while believing they are
acting for the person's own good.
Insecurities from emotional
distress or pretences half-baked knowledge are the deep-seated need for
external order to meet lofty procrastinations.
Poorly understood masculine
energies by females are often in the struggle of emancipation and cannot remove
the mental weight with detachment from external stimuli and a controlled
lifestyle.
Dramatized anger and
frustrations are the ignorant quality that kicks in the comedy and the act of
the weak mind.
It mirrors the image of
helplessness and some traumatic past issue’s from childhood who consider
honesty as disrespectful with astonishment, preferring small talk as security
blanket.
The autocratic way of
behavior has qualities coming from the inherit charisma of past lives obsession
that accumulated to the ruling taskmaster of intimidations.
There are some prominent
planetary aspects in the Vedic Astrology that show the qualities of a
controlling nature, like the conjunction of planets with Rahu, the
signification of desire and its issues of being in charge, too many planets in
the first house with contradicting qualities like Jupiter and Mercury that
makes it impossible to touch reality. Everything gets blown out of proportions,
in an exaggerated way to make a point. The traditional consultation of an
Astrologer as marriage compatible analyzer has its advantage to avoid emotional
drama and the pain of delusional righteousness.
The blinded love affection
and its feeling of surrendering will have its turn, when demands and control of
affection are the procedure to happiness.
The natural flow of respect
is the love that develops into harmony, where all beauty is born into the
consideration of wisdom and where the divine plan has its intended nature.
Having faith is the essence
of true confidence that culminates as living trust, as manipulated trust has no
values to the self and others, when one has no trust in the self.
Holding space is the
immensity of a true presence, where happiness and personal charisma are the
tools, then love creates beauty by her own hands to step beyond the
superficiality and life not lived.
Loving is living and in
love is the humility of the masters.
The more control one needs
the more control is needed to create the chaos some people strive on the desire
for hostility to takes over.
The cost of not delegating is invisible, but
the price one pays is the real dilemma that repulses all love and its true
intimacy.
The culmination in the
controlling mind is the anticlimax of society that blinds every intelligence, by
reasons created and destroyed by ignorance.
