The Micromanager

 

 

Some loving controller always needs to meet once insecurities for being in charge of a situation by trying to manipulate others and never be able to find the needed peace in the self.

The externalized focus of control struggles to surrender to the simplicity of compassion of every moment needs to know all the issues that cause underlying anxiety and the lack of inner calm.

The loving controller uses manipulation to get others to conform to their will, while believing they are acting for the person's own good.

Insecurities from emotional distress or pretences half-baked knowledge are the deep-seated need for external order to meet lofty procrastinations.

Poorly understood masculine energies by females are often in the struggle of emancipation and cannot remove the mental weight with detachment from external stimuli and a controlled lifestyle.

Dramatized anger and frustrations are the ignorant quality that kicks in the comedy and the act of the weak mind.

It mirrors the image of helplessness and some traumatic past issue’s from childhood who consider honesty as disrespectful with astonishment, preferring small talk as security blanket.

The autocratic way of behavior has qualities coming from the inherit charisma of past lives obsession that accumulated to the ruling taskmaster of intimidations.

There are some prominent planetary aspects in the Vedic Astrology that show the qualities of a controlling nature, like the conjunction of planets with Rahu, the signification of desire and its issues of being in charge, too many planets in the first house with contradicting qualities like Jupiter and Mercury that makes it impossible to touch reality. Everything gets blown out of proportions, in an exaggerated way to make a point. The traditional consultation of an Astrologer as marriage compatible analyzer has its advantage to avoid emotional drama and the pain of delusional righteousness.

The blinded love affection and its feeling of surrendering will have its turn, when demands and control of affection are the procedure to happiness.

The natural flow of respect is the love that develops into harmony, where all beauty is born into the consideration of wisdom and where the divine plan has its intended nature.

Having faith is the essence of true confidence that culminates as living trust, as manipulated trust has no values to the self and others, when one has no trust in the self.

Holding space is the immensity of a true presence, where happiness and personal charisma are the tools, then love creates beauty by her own hands to step beyond the superficiality and life not lived.

Loving is living and in love is the humility of the masters.

The more control one needs the more control is needed to create the chaos some people strive on the desire for hostility to takes over.

 The cost of not delegating is invisible, but the price one pays is the real dilemma that repulses all love and its true intimacy.

The culmination in the controlling mind is the anticlimax of society that blinds every intelligence, by reasons created and destroyed by ignorance.

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