We are related to our
friends, parents, children, spouse, co-workers, as well as to once own body,
thoughts, feelings, the spirit, the job, and once shared recourses and bank
account.
Relationships therefore are very important, which often get used to control relationships as a sort of power game, to create seeming authority over others.
This makes relationships,
more of a battle field, rather than a playing field of love, which will have a
different harvest.
We are related to the
earth, the moon, the sun, the air we breathe, the water we drink, the food we
eat and the spirit that gives us the drive.
When a negative emotions
comes up in a relationship, such as resentment of a past hurt or insult, anger,
fear, anxiety, or criticism, one needs to pay attention to those feelings, for
it maintains its energy to maintain some deep seated issue. Overdramatic
actions are usually the consequence of being in denial of once poor psychology
that takes place. Only out of honesty, clarity comes and opens the possibility
of true integrity and love compassion.
When clarity is lacking, feelings are
repressed, or communication is absent at times of crisis in our relationships,
stress builds up, and this is one of the causes of illness. Stress disrupts our
inner biochemistry, the doshas are thrown out of balance, and the seeds of
disease are sown. Clarity in relationships develops compassion, and compassion
is love. Therefore love is clarity, and as we all know, love is the key to successful
relationships.
Adoration, empathies or
sensations have nothing to do with true love; there are emotional poverties
where childish love is experiencing as bliss, or like some teenager is in awe
with some idol.
The bare truth alone is not
sufficient; it needs the motion of action and turned into the experience that
accumulates wisdom, for all regrets have no meaning when used as impulse
defense.
Pretences manipulator will always
attract weak emotional intelligence in others, to provide a seeming safety
ideal, only to satisfy their power game, to take advantage.
Falseness comes in the most
beautiful cloth and circumstance to hide from once eyes the real purpose.
Taken in consideration that
there is nothing that is accidental, for all situations in life work towards
some definite progress, learning and end. Before one can know the truth one
must learn to live a true life.
Relationships and its love
process is the weapon that can conquer all obstacles on ones path in life.
Love in relationship,
especially with God is in its fullness an inexpressible power which speaks
louder than words, for is the river of life that gushes from the heart of
sincerity.
For it the darkness of ones
own heart which falls as a shadow on the heart of another that provides all
doubt.
When the human heart
becomes conscious of the divine love it becomes like the sea that nourishes the
world and extends its waves to family and friends.
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