Troubled empathy describes
the emotional stress or worries one sense in sympathetic concerns.
Mostly superficial feelings
or sympathy for the sorrows of the world and the misfortune towards others or
animals are the elements of negative emotional experience to that understanding,
such as distress or anxiety, that turns into righteousness and ego issues.
Misunderstood feminine qualities
that cause overwhelming feelings and anxiety are not a healthy or helpful
response.
Life is tough and one needs
to overcome those feelings to a more calm, confident, and courageous life.
Feeling the pain of the
world doesn’t serve anyone, whereas it is important to keep one self protected
from emotional overload and compassion fatigue and its debilitating drama.
Once own spiritual
awakening is very dependent on calmness and trusts in the progress without
awaken the unconscious tendencies that take over the mind and the nervous
system.
Some believe is even more
spiritual to be emphatic and feel the pain of circumstances, not realizing once own emotional weakness and its display.
Unhealthy empathy is the
food for the media to control the masses with psychological manipulation that
comes with most entertainment as an art of marketing.
There is a huge difference
between feeling compassion for the suffering of others and confusing it with
creating once own stress.
To wear oneself out with
emotional overbearing collective pain is only the increase of once own
psychological dilemma.
Emotional Intelligence and
those who exercise emotions, especially in groups to feel more confident about
their own feelings are more susceptible to experiencing anxiety or low-level
depression.
The inability to discern
once own individual emotions from others feelings, is once unconscious process
of emotions that does not belong to the self and creating psychological
confusion and mental-physical burnout.
Real compassion has no
attachments and allows recognizing someone else’s pain with understanding the
depth of it.
With spiritual practice one
can strengthen the natural compassion one empowers, to take helpful action and wisdom
that is needed to be of real service.
In order to respond, rather
than react, one needs to be aware of what happens in the self when one is
exposed to an upsetting situation.
Mostly over stimulated
righteous feelings are fears not being in control, triggers anxiety and the
fight towards emotional exhausting sympathies shopping for sympathy.
Karuna is the practice of
compassion in Vedic philosophies to maintain serenity of mind when faced with
the tragedies of the world.
As true compassion does not
dis-empower the self to establish mental calmness to those, who suffering. One
can only assist in being compassionate from a more centered, calm and virtuosic
wise place.
To observe from the
even-minded clarity is the center of once universe and once own empowerment
from within.
The worst enemy of the self
and its protective ignorance are the tears for help, to fall into once own
unhealthy empathy trap.
As long one cannot face
these aspects in the subconscious and one takes on dysfunctional roles and
behaviors that prevent healing, emotions will cause harm to the self and once
relationships.
Deep seated pain and
feelings of unworthiness are the issues not knowing the self completely, but
bring out the issues that need to be resolved as part of purpose of once life.
The emphatic desire to help
others is in most cases a cover up to create an image, that is colored with the
ability not be able to help the subtle self, only to mirror attention seeking
blur.
Most people are confused
about the absolute reality with once relative reality, not seeing the absolute
truth of oneness of all and the nature of how things really are in the
universe.
The deeper consciousness or
astral body is the root to the self in the absolute reality, while the relative
identity of the self in most cases is simply an illusion of mental attachments
as ego-safety net.
From a relative
perspective, everyone needs healthy attachment and relationships, shelter,
clothing, and means to eat, which is the natural compassion to the self, which
needs to be exercised with gratitude.
Denial of this truth easily
leads to avoidance and repression of fundamental needs, which were the ultimate
teaching lessons for Buddha’s life.
The trouble and pain of
life is the price for the quickening of the heart, then for every fulfillment
of every activity is in the tuning of the heart.
Possibilities and optimism
is the nature of God and its natural laws while the stress of dramatic
emotions, is the nature of the worried human mind, considered as the divine
comedy.
Verily blessed are those
who mourn, because it is they who will be comforted!
God is intimately present and compassionate
toward those who are suffering from grief, despair, or crushing life
circumstances.
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